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July 5, 2026

Goodbye Cancer Hello Naughty in Nawlins

We never planned to be gone over a year after our last podcast, but Mrs. Tango got breast cancer and that took all of our focus last year. The good news is she kicked cancer's ass, she's totally cured, and we've picked up the mics again and we're packing to go to New Orleans and Naughty in N'Awlins next week! We talk about last year and reflect on what the podcast and our listeners have meant to us, then talk about what promises to be a wild week in NOLA!
Jan. 1, 2025

Naughty 24 and Motorbunny Buck Giveaway

In this episode we discuss our swinging adventures at Naughty in N'Awlins 24 and we give away TWO Motorbunny Bucks. Yes, it's been a while (again) but "Life" once again intervened. We also discuss how a fun party with a room full of people became one of the most impressive examples of someone being amazing to help someone struggling with self esteem issues. We hope you enjoy!
June 8, 2024

Episode 46 Human Sex Toys

A listener who is new to the Swinging Lifestyle asked us if it is wrong to "use" other couples as "Human Sex Toys?" We explore what they meant and whether playing with other couples with no intent of becoming long term friends, but rather purely for the sex, is somehow a bad thing. We also answer another listener's question on whether they are too old for the swinging lifestyle.
April 27, 2024

Episode 45 A Different Kind of Drama in the Swinging Lifestyle

In this episode we are very transparent in sharing why we have been so sporadic in the last couple of year publishing episodes. We also talk about some fun stuff and our future plans for a MUCH more adventurous journey in the Lifestye!
June 10, 2023

Episode 44 Embracing Change in the Swinging Lifestyle

How do couples in the swinging lifestyle change in their rules, expectations, play styles, etc. as they gain experience? We chat with our good friends Nick and Nora as we discuss what couples told us about how they've evolved in their swinging lifestyle journey. Mentioned in this episode: our favorite place for purchasing and advice on sex toys and accessories and more: www.casualtoys.com
March 19, 2023

Episode 43 13 Surefire Ways to Fail in the Swinging Lifestyle

The Swinging Lifestyle can be a tricky thing to maneuver, and, especially when you're first starting, it's easy to have no success in connecting with other likeminded couples or singles and wonder what you're doing wrong. We asked a lot of people in the Lifestyle community for their input on how to fail in the Lifestyle. The result is this podcast; these were the most common responses on how to totally screw it up.
Jan. 30, 2023

Episode 42 A Couple of Above Average Swingers

We interview @notyouraveragemr and @notyouraveragemrs, a VERY hot couple who have been in the swinging lifestyle for just about a year (though together for a much longer time!) We talk about their very active first year in the Swinging Lifestyle!
Sept. 30, 2022

Episode 41 Naughty in Nawlins 22

We talk about our fun times at Naughty in Nawlins 22! A fun Sybian and Motorbunny Buck Party, Jay and Angie getting on stage at The Cat's Meow on Bourbon St. and giving us all a Karaoke show, and much more. We also have our Toy of the Month review and we will be giving two of these away to two lucky listeners! Mentioned in this episode: www.averageswingers.com www.casualswinger.com www.casualtoys,com @swingerdiaries (Twitter) @ready2jam1 (Twitter) @NotYourAverageMrs (Twitter)
July 2, 2022

Special Pre Naughty in Nawlins 2022 Episode

This is a a special pre-Naughty in N'Awlins 2022 episode we recorded during a break in packing! We just wanted to let any listeners who will be there know how to connect with us and share a Titos or your favorite adult beverage. This will be our 7th Naughty in N'Awlins; we had a break in 2020 and 2021. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Swinger Diaries (no longer online!) casualswinger.com averageswingers.com
July 2, 2022

Special Pre Naughty in Nawlins 2022 Episode

This is a a special pre-Naughty in N'Awlins 2022 episode we recorded during a break in packing! We just wanted to let any listeners who will be there know how to connect with us and share a Titos or your favorite adult beverage. This will be our 7th Naughty in N'Awlins; we had a break in 2020 and 2021. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Swinger Diaries (no longer online!) casualswinger.com averageswingers.com
July 2, 2022

Special Pre Naughty in Nawlins 2022 Episode

This is a a special pre-Naughty in N'Awlins 2022 episode we recorded during a break in packing! We just wanted to let any listeners who will be there know how to connect with us and share a Titos or your favorite adult beverage. This will be our 7th Naughty in N'Awlins; we had a break in 2020 and 2021. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Swinger Diaries (no longer online!) casualswinger.com averageswingers.com
June 24, 2022

Episode 39 From Religiously Inhibited to Gang Bangs

A couple with a strong religious background shares their journey, and struggles as the entered the Swinging Lifestyle and how they progressed from feeling guilty at softswap to full gang bangs. Sites mentioned: www.casualtoys.com
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June 23, 2022

Episode 39 From Religiously Inhibited to Gang Bangs

A couple with a strong religious background shares their journey, and struggles as the entered the Swinging Lifestyle and how they progressed from feeling guilty at softswap to full gang bangs. Sites mentioned: www.casualtoys.com
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June 23, 2022

Episode 39 From Religiously Inhibited to Gang Bangs

A couple with a strong religious background shares their journey, and struggles as the entered the Swinging Lifestyle and how they progressed from feeling guilty at softswap to full gang bangs. Sites mentioned: www.casualtoys.com
May 8, 2022

Episode 38 Space Dildos with Casual Toys

We're back and talking sex toys with the couple from Casual Toys (and the Casual Swinger podcast.) They know more about sex toys than anyone we know, and they tell us things everyone who uses sex toys should know. Oh, and a huge Bad Dragon dildo at 45,000 feet in the sky is not the funniest thing in this podcast! Links you should follow: https://www.casualtoys.com
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May 8, 2022

Episode 38 Space Dildos with Casual Toys

We're back and talking sex toys with the couple from Casual Toys (and the Casual Swinger podcast.) They know more about sex toys than anyone we know, and they tell us things everyone who uses sex toys should know. Oh, and a huge Bad Dragon dildo at 45,000 feet in the sky is not the funniest thing in this podcast! Links you should follow: https://www.casualtoys.com
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May 8, 2022

Episode 38 Space Dildos with Casual Toys

We're back and talking sex toys with the couple from Casual Toys (and the Casual Swinger podcast.) They know more about sex toys than anyone we know, and they tell us things everyone who uses sex toys should know. Oh, and a huge Bad Dragon dildo at 45,000 feet in the sky is not the funniest thing in this podcast! Links you should follow: https://www.casualtoys.com
Dec. 17, 2021

Episode 37 Sex Game Night with Nick and Nora

It's Sex Game Night with our good friends Nick and Nora! We intended to publish this several months ago but we had some life interruptions, but better late than never! We always have a great, fun, sexy time with these two. We took The Game of Lifestyle card game that you hear a lot about in LS podcast and created a modified version for the 4 of us. We hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed playing!
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Dec. 17, 2021

Episode 37 Sex Game Night with Nick and Nora

It's Sex Game Night with our good friends Nick and Nora! We intended to publish this several months ago but we had some life interruptions, but better late than never! We always have a great, fun, sexy time with these two. We took The Game of Lifestyle card game that you hear a lot about in LS podcast and created a modified version for the 4 of us. We hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed playing!
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Dec. 17, 2021

Episode 37 Sex Game Night with Nick and Nora

It's Sex Game Night with our good friends Nick and Nora! We intended to publish this several months ago but we had some life interruptions, but better late than never! We always have a great, fun, sexy time with these two. We took The Game of Lifestyle card game that you hear a lot about in LS podcast and created a modified version for the 4 of us. We hope you enjoy listening as much as we enjoyed playing!
Oct. 22, 2021

Episode 36 Motorbunny Buck Review

We finally publish our review of the Motorbunny Buck; the short version is that Mrs. Tango likes it. A lot. And we've just scratched the surface of what it can do. The big news is that Mrs. Tango is finally back home again after a LOT of "Life Stiff." So we talk some about Life vs. The Lifestyle when big life events take over your life.
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Oct. 22, 2021

Episode 36 Motorbunny Buck Review

We finally publish our review of the Motorbunny Buck; the short version is that Mrs. Tango likes it. A lot. And we've just scratched the surface of what it can do. The big news is that Mrs. Tango is finally back home again after a LOT of "Life Stiff." So we talk some about Life vs. The Lifestyle when big life events take over your life.
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Oct. 22, 2021

Episode 36 Motorbunny Buck Review

We finally publish our review of the Motorbunny Buck; the short version is that Mrs. Tango likes it. A lot. And we've just scratched the surface of what it can do. The big news is that Mrs. Tango is finally back home again after a LOT of "Life Stiff." So we talk some about Life vs. The Lifestyle when big life events take over your life.
Sept. 6, 2021

Episode 35 PCAP and Swinging Around The World

Ever wonder what the swinging lifestyle is like in other countries? With Mrs Tango away on a family emergency, the smart and funny Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (AKA Swinging Down Under) cohosts this episode with Mr. Tango. She and her husband have lived in a wide variety of places in the world and they have traveled the globe, getting a taste of the lifestyle experience in different countries and cultures. We also talk about the LS culture in general, "Red Flags" for LS newbies (and experienced...
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